Unfukt vs Redpilled
Stay unfukt...and un-thirsty, my friends
Take the Unfukt Pill
You may be wondering: What does the Five Stages of Unfuck have to do with taking the Red Pill? And is it the same thing?
Because it sounds like there's a lot competing tribes and factions--much of it driven by the Manosphere.
Blue, Red, Green, Black Pill.
Alpha, Beta, Sigma, SIMP.
Dangerous Incel, Stoic MGTOW.
Or just plain Zeroed Out.
And then there's this trope about Unfucking from The Matrix, which would indicate overlap with all of that.
Unfucking Can Overlap
It can come sooner, later, or right in the middle.
But by the grace of 20-20 hindsight, I am here to tell you it's best done first, as a pre-requisite to any life-positive change you may be contemplating.
My own journey through the Five Stages of Unfuck came at the end of most of the above. And is something I should have completed long before embarking on any of the above.
Not to simplify the reason why: there is major foundational work that needs to be done on the inside before any of these aftermarket, exogenous constructs can be applied—and will work— as advertised.
Think of it as you would an engine from a car that has been stuck in a mudpit for years. The sludge has to be drained out of the engine completely.
Until then it really doesn't matter what parts you replace or slap on. They may process the sludge more efficiently—for a while. But eventually they get bogged down and shit the bed.
Been There, Seen That
I see it a lot, even with guys who have made classic redpill pilgrimage through The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi, now in its umpteenth printing.
Which did not unfuck me from my own matrix but, thanks to its thorough mapping of the male psyche, proved beyond all reasonable doubt that our internal chasms cannot be bridged by external mantras, rah-rahs, or resolutions.
That breakthrough must come from within, through an unfucking from and unliving of the lived and learned experiences from your unique upbringing, education, and conditioning.
And from a longer-than-deserved tenure in this life, I can categorically state that a book cannot do that for you. A course will not solve that for you. Therapy will not excavate that out of you. Neither will a new guru. Or a new girl.
For any of these solutions to work and stick, an internal overhaul must happen first. An overhaul yielding the pellucidly clear revelation of who you are, why you are here, and the eternal fraternity to which you are blood-bound.
Had I understood that, my own redpilling would have been accomplished with a lot less wasted time and motion, a lot less rage, and a lot less to talk about.
If there is anything I can hold myself up as a model for, it is how to waste your life by doing things ass-backwards.
Consider me your anti-guru. Do NOT be like me-- continually (and by the metrics successfully) re-inventing the outer self without re-tooling the inner soul.
I can tell you right now with guru-like conviction what the end of that will be-- an ever-expanding vista upon endless piles of accumulated shit, disconnected experiences, and wondering What the fuck did I just accomplish?
Take Tiger Mountain By Strategy
If you are considering a new direction, I am in your corner and rooting for your continued and total success.
But don't be like me. Get the foundation laid right before you start working on the roof. That would be my only ask and advice.
Get to your own January 2.0-- whatever that means for you-- first.
My purpose in offering The Five Stages of Unfuck is to shorten the time to getting started on whatever direction you choose, to reaching your ultimate destination in record time (…or not), and being able to look back and say, This is what I accomplished in the time and space I was given here on this planet!
Just because they just don't teach that anymore in our homes, in our churches, in our schools, or in the Scouts anymore, doesn't mean wisdom has been lost to the ages.
Or that this present darkness and the coming renaissance will not require unfukt men who have unlived their mistaken identities to put to the sword a crooked and perverse generation of boys who have been raised as defective girls.
Stay un-thirsty, my friends… Join the Army of the Unfukt!
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Harvey Oxenhorn, is a cybersecurity consultant, author of The Five Stages of Unf*ck, Red Pill Journey to January 2.0. for the millions of men mangled by years of unchecked and unquestioned feminism, globalism, and Woke. He is also founder of Malwords Weekly, and author of the upcoming book, The Atrocity Algorithm, How The Media Became The Enemy of The People. Follow him on Gettr, Gab, and MeWe @HarveyOxenhorn